Life is not without its challenges – but you can navigate through them. Here are our tips on how to build on your resilience.
- Build self-empowerment. Learn about yourself! What motivates you? What are your goals?
- Build your support network. We all need help sometimes, it’s important to know when and who to ask for help. You can also strengthen this network by supporting others when they need it.
- Learn from you past. We can’t be perfect, but make sure you learn from mistakes and use it to keep building on self-empowerment and support so you can be more resilient next time.
How to deal with an unhelpful emotional reaction
When we hear about a challenging situation, like an assignment being due, we can act on instinct and have an emotional reaction which isn’t always helpful. Here are a few examples of negative thoughts which might cause the unhelpful reaction:
- “I did badly last time, so I’ll do badly again”
- “I can’t do this”
- “I’ve never done this before”
All these thoughts can lessen your resilience but are normal. The key to start dealing with these situations is to be C A L M.
The key to start dealing with these situations is to be calm, as it will allow you to think more clearly. Here are some examples you might want to try to help calm down:
- Let time pass
- Meditate or practice mindfulness
- Use an app such as SAM app or Calm
- Exercise or go for a walk
- Speak to friends or family
- Write in a journal
- Listen to music
Once you have calmed down and can think properly, question your reasons for the unhelpful reaction. Ask yourself:
What’s going on here? And why am I feeling like this?
Knowing why you reacted unhelpfully can help you to learn the cause(s) of the issue.
Work out how you might be able to improve your situation and lessen the impact of the negative thoughts.
- What can you do yourself?
- What might you need support with?
We have a range of self-help resources available online as well as one to one appointments for individual support with the Wellbeing Service. You can book these over the phone on 0117 32 86268 or by email.